by Belinda O
Well, tomorrow is my birthday…the years keep rolling by…I plan to celebrate! But it brings to mind this much-loved song from my childhood (well, a little before, but I heard it a lot as a kid):
You load sixteen tons, what do you get?
Another day older and deeper in debt
Saint Peter don’t you call me ’cause I can’t go
I owe my soul to the company store— music and lyrics by Merle Travis
Well, whatever else may rain down on me, at least I’m not a coal miner. I know those who built their lives around the mines are often profoundly loyal, literally to a point of death, but from my lofty vantage point, there’s little return for the workers.
When I worked part-time at a department store, I used to joke I “owed my soul to the company store.” Hey, my full-time job, at least in theory, paid the bills, so that was extra cash to spend as I pleased…and I did. I kept track, and about half of what I earned there went straight back to the company coffers.
Thirty years later, I still have some of the Marimekko dishes I purchased, one place setting at a time, always on sale, until I had nine settings (eight, plus a spare). So not everything was thrown away on clothes and makeup. The first setting I got on my birthday from my sister, Beth, who thankfully has good taste.
But I digress from my original point. Where was I going with this? Oh yes! Tomorrow is my birthday! Yup, another year older…but not really deeper in debt. Except for the debts of gratitude I owe so many people in my life.
- My mom, who is always there for me in every way. She will sacrifice just about anything to help me. I would give her the moon if I could (although cash may be more practical).
- My brother, who has proven his love and commitment to me in ways I can never repay. He has shown me the value of family, and more importantly, myself.
- My dad, who is so in tune with my thinking (or I suppose it should be stated the other way around since I’m his offspring) and never fails to surprise me with just the right support when I need it most.
- My friends Beverly and Bill, who, like family, gave me emotional and practical support, often at personal expense.
- My best friend from college, Laurie, who “gets me” like few others — and still loves me!
- My friend Deb, who thinks nothing of putting others before herself and finding the right gifts on any day of the year.
- My blogging buddies, for all the support you’ve given me in the past two years, as well as the gift of your friendship…and blogs!!!
So many others, but I’ll keep the list concise so it doesn’t lose meaning.
Thank you, everyone of you, and have a piece of chocolate cake (or whatever) this Saturday — it’s my birthday, and I want to celebrate with you!
Another year older, and deeper in debt — to all who have given me love and support.
Make yourself smile today with this catchy tune from Tennessee Ernie Ford, which spent a combined 16 weeks at the top of the Billboard Top 100 and Top Country hits lists back in 1955-56. (And if you want a good laugh, look up the “Go-Go Version” on YouTube.)
Photo Credits: (Department Store) © torsakarin – Fotolia; (Birthday Cupcake) © Studio KIVI – Fotolia
The Happiest of birthday wishes to you, Belinda! Wonderful and touching post. And thank you for your tremendous writing on this site and your equally wonderful “sister” site, Classic for a Reason.
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Thank you!
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Happy Birthday Belinda. Have a great day 🙂
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Thank you 🙂
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Happy Birthday to you, Belinda! Celebrate the entire weekend!!
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Thank you! I plan to do just that!
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Happy almost Birthday Belinda!
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Thank you!
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Happy birthday Belinda! It’s a beautiful post. Hope you have a fun-filled day 🙂
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Happy birthday. As I grow older I try and remember getting old is a privilege not every one gets.
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So true. I just learned of actor Miguel Ferrer’s death a day or two ago — he was 61. I may grumble about the aches and pains of getting older, literal and otherwise, but then I think of him and others who have gone too soon.
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Hope you had a great birthday Belinda! As each year goes by it gets that much harder to believe I am so much older than the people I used to think knew nothing about anything when I was a kid. If the trade-off for being wiser is more aches and pains I think I’ll sign off on it…not like there’s a choice in the matter. Tennessee Ernie Ford – those performances take me “back in the day” for sure. I remember seeing him on the old black & white television with the rabbit ear antenna.
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Yeah, I enjoy the power that comes from wisdom and experience. As for rabbit ears…glad that frustration is in the past!
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Happy belated Birthday! Hope your special day was a good one!
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Happy Belated birthday! Found you from the Katzenworld blog where your darling kitty is featured! Your writing is beautiful! Just signed up to follow you! Hope you have all the best in your birthday year! catchatwithcarenandcody
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Thank you!!! I haven’t even seen today’s TRT post yet (I’m guessing that’s the one you’re talking about). Good thing my sweet Walter doesn’t know about it or it might go to his head!
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Belinda, I’m sorry I missed to wish you a happy birthday. Well, Happy Belated Birthday my dear blogging friend! 🙂 xox
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Thank you! I think your wishes are within the “birthday greeting grace period.” 🙂
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Phew! 🙂
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A belated Birthday wish Belinda! But I did have the chocolate 🎂 it was very tasty and delicious like your Love for all.
Another Year Older makes one deeper in debt as the love is being spent lavishly for others. 😀
Shiva
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