Can’t Live if Living is Without You

When I was seven or eight, I had a book about a little boy who lived in a world where everything was automated. He had no human contact. His alarm would go off in the morning and his clothes would have been picked out for him, his breakfast was made for him, his transportation to school and then school itself was automated–and solitary.

Then one day the electricity was off. He woke up late, had to pick out his own clothes, had to figure out how to use the toaster, struggled to find a way to school and once there, was surrounded by other children his own age who were equally confused by their new situation.

At the time I thought the story was a little bizarre, but possible. I figured the grown ups would find a way to stop such things from happening, so I wasn’t worried about it.

Now I’m trying to get the balance in my checking account and the online app is telling me my “authentication failed” and to “contact the contact center.” I have no idea how to contact the contact center, it’s a holiday, and I want my balance. Electricity hasn’t failed me, but automation has.

I admit, I don’t keep a ledger of my account balance. Does anybody anymore? I check my balance daily and I know how much money I have available. My wall calendar (yes, I still have one of those) tells me what automatic deductions I can expect throughout the month. I verify that these deductions have been made. It’s kind of like a ledger.

Of course, purchases have to be accounted for and I’ve made a few this weekend. I want to verify my account balance, and I’m frustrated because I can’t.

Will this sort of thing get worse with AI? I don’t know. I’m not saying the olden days were better–there was no way to get my account balance then other than my monthly statement. I like being able to verify my balance daily. It gives me a sense of security. I’m wondering now if something is wrong with my account. It’s more likely that something is wrong with the app (I think), but I want to be sure.

The story above ended happily. The little boy made friends and thrived at school. He learned how to make pancakes on his own. But will the story end happily for us if all of a sudden the Internet fails? Is that even a possibility? Do we have a backup life available?

Okay, maybe I’m making too much of this. But I do wonder.

Image Credits: Header © Morocko–stock.adobe.com; Boy dressing © Chunu–stock.adobe.com; Laptops © MDRONI–stock.adobe.com

Mimi and the Vacuum

I live in a small, kind of shabby apartment. That being said, it’s important to keep it clean. But I have the hardest time vacuuming on a regular basis because it scares the cats so much. Okay, you may have a hard time believing that when you see this picture. When the vacuum isn’t in use, the cats are fine with it, which is a good thing since I have no room for it in the coat closet. Or anywhere else. It stays in a corner in the living room. But the second I move toward it, the cats scram. And I feel bad about that. Maybe I should get a Roomba.

I’m really brave as long as this thing is off!

Image Credits: Cesar Cat © Belinda O; Paws in Heart © Bigstock Photos; Cat and Vacuum (illustration) © Albina–stock.adobe.com; Cat on Roomba © oksi–stock.adobe.com

Walter and Mimi Just Chillin’

They snuggle up with me all the time–in fact, when one is done often the other steps in (sometimes difficult to get any knitting done). I don’t see them this close together too much. Maybe it’s the quilt. They do seem to like it.

Mama’s bed is the best!

Image Credits: Cesar Cat © Belinda O; Paws in Heart © Bigstock Photos; Cat on bed (illustration) © Godel–stock.adobe.com

Reality vs Romance

Daily writing prompt
Do you believe in soulmates? Why or why not?

I’ve found that most people who call someone they’re in love with their soulmate are actually still in the infatuation stage of a relationship. It’s easy to see the connection then–everything seems perfect. You both like the same food, same entertainment, same kinds of pets. You were meant to be.

And that may be true. I do believe, to a certain extent, that there is a power that draws us into relationships. I have friends who’ve been happily married for forty years or more. I was there when they first met each other and lived through the ups and downs of courtship and the forces that brought them to the ultimate decision: we’ll get married.

Those friends can tell me they’re with their soulmates and I’ll believe them. You go through that many years of marriage and you’ve seen the ups and downs of life together–sometimes, perhaps, less together than you’d want to be, but in the end, you’re still with that same person.

Interestingly, though, I’ve never had a friend or relative who’s been in a long-term relationship call their significant other “my soulmate.” Perhaps, like me, they see that as a naive belief. When you’re together for a long time, you discover there are a lot of differences between the two of you, and you’re not the perfect match you initially thought you were.

That’s not to say that your relationship is bad. People are flawed, and it’s sometimes difficult to discover those flaws in someone we love. But that’s also the beauty of settling in to being together. You learn to work it out. You learn to love.

I had a boyfriend who ended up breaking up with me because he didn’t think we were soulmates. I asked him what he thought a soulmate was, and he said it was someone you were completely in sync with. You never disagreed with each other because you were destined to live happily ever after.

Yeah, he’s still single.

Image Credits: Couple Holding Hands (header) © Pete–stock.adobe.com; Birds in Love © Celestynka–stock.adobe.com

Walter at Work

Well, I try to keep a clear space near me when I’m at my laptop as Walter thinks that is prime time for snuggling. I disagree, although I tend to lose that battle. As you can see, he’s settled in next to the printer, which is kind of ironic since the printer scares the bejeebers out of him when it’s actually printing something.

He is, however, by far my favorite co-worker.

Don’t disturb me–I’m writing the Great American Novel!

Image Credits: Cesar Cat © Belinda O; Paws in Heart © BigStock Photos; Cat at Laptop © Journey–stock.adobe.com