When I was six, I wanted nothing more than a Bible for Christmas. I didn’t come from a particularly religious family, but somehow I had that desire in me. I got one, and I still have it. I also got an Easy-Bake Oven, which, quite frankly, I got more use out of in the following year. I don’t have it any more.
At the age of sixteen, my heart’s desire was my own car. I knew that was the impossible dream. My parents couldn’t afford to buy me even the least expensive auto available, and my sister and brother were right behind me. Getting all three of us cars was, as Santa would say, a ho ho ho thought. So I borrowed my mom’s car until I graduated from high school, when I got a job and a car payment of my own.
Fast forward to the Christmas I was thirty-six. That year, I craved some love and attention from my distant boyfriend. I didn’t get it, and we broke up New Year’s weekend. But that taught me something. The greatest gift a friend or family can give me is being there for me.
Almost thirteen years ago, I hit a crisis in my life. I was scared, confused, a bit in denial, and in definite need of support. I got it from my brother. It meant the world to me, and taught me, once again, the importance of family and friends in good times and bad. Especially bad.
My birthday is coming up in a couple of weeks, and I don’t expect any gifts. I know I’ll get some cards, and I treasure those. I also believe it’s highly likely my Scrabble buddies will celebrate with ice cream, possibly (hopefully) Baskin Robbins Jamoca Almond Fudge. Yum. They’ll remember me, and they care for me. That’s their greatest gift, and it’s enough.
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This makes me smile to know your brother was there for you, Belinda. Jamoca Almond Fudge?! Now you’re talking! I hope your birthday is fabulous!
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There are a number of flavors I like, but that’s my favorite 😍
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So often, I’ve found the best gifts from friends and family are the meaning and thoughtfulness behind the gifts. It might be the simplest thing given, but the fact someone remembered I liked it, or it was consistent with my interests, etc. left way, way more of an impression than whatever it actually was. Being cared about…and remembered…has the most value of all.
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Absolutely.
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Beautiful. I’m drawn to your brother’s gift of being there for you, when you needed it the most, and, of course, your wish for your upcoming birthday. I love your choice, Baskin Robbins Jamoca Almond Fudge. Sounds amazing.
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Thank you! My brother being there for me was pretty much the best gift I’ve ever received.
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I think you’ve nailed it that our best gift is being there for each other. What a blessing! Happy birthday in advance!
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Thank you!
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Eventually, we all learn what’s important, I guess 😉
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Hopefully!
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