The other day I had the distinct pleasure of watching two teenage girls connect. I already knew these were nice girls, and seeing the way they responded to each other, sharing a love of books and a particular type of learning, not to mention the immediate reaction to each other’s Instagram accounts, kind of made my heart sing.
Connections like that don’t happen every day.
Whether or not this leads to any sort of long-term friendship (and by long-term, I mean anywhere from the next few years to a lifetime) remains to be seen, and I may never know. But it was a happy reminder to me of two of my friendships that started 25 and 40 years ago, respectively, and remain strong to this day.
All three of us have moved multiple times and we’ve all faced life’s struggles, and even though neither friend lives near me now, we remain in contact and have learned that we’ve grown in similar ways. Our faith has changed in some of the details (but not the basics) and our politics have changed (thankfully). I’m proud to call them each my friend.
I have good friends locally today, but these are friendships that have evolved. While I liked these friends from the beginning, there wasn’t the immediate connection I felt with the others. Is that because that sort of connection is so rare, or is it because I’m so much more cautious these days?
I don’t have an answer for that. I’m just grateful to have the friends I have and to know the people I know. I don’t make a lot of friends easily, but I endeavor to keep the ones I have.
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Those lifelong friendships are a wonderful thing, Belinda. And from 25-40 years ago?! That’s the best.
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I wholeheartedly agree 😊
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Love this, Belinda. Every friendship for me is a special treasure – I tend to keep in touch with friends from all parts of my life. I even went through a period of reconnecting and I can thank Facebook for some of that. I now keep in touch with friends I knew in Elementary School.
I had a very dear friend in college that I adored. Your words about those young girls connecting reminded me of her. I will always remember our special friendship. My friend died over a decade ago and I’ll never forget the joy from our time together.
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You summed it up for me when you said every friendship is a special treasure. I’m so sorry for your loss, but so glad you have those memories.
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Belinda, I remember reading something a short time ago where the average person only has a handful of what can be called close friends. Each friendship is indeed a treasure as Judy suggested earlier. I know I cherish the ones I have.
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