I wouldn’t want to win the lottery.

Managing all the money would be a burden, a task I’m not prepared to handle. Okay, one million dollars I might figure out. Even two. But start getting higher than that, and I’m out of my depth.

I expressed this thought once to a group of co-workers, and the response was immediate and forceful.

“Oh, I could figure out how to handle it!!”

“I have an uncle who works in a bank. He could help me.”

And there was the  woman who agreed with me, but for a slightly different reason. “I am totally the kind of person someone could take advantage of,” she said.

genieWinning the lottery is as realistic for me as getting three wishes from a genie, another gift I don’t think I would want to be burdened with in this lifetime. The tales of those who are granted those wishes always end badly, a moralistic story of greed and the perils of getting what you dream will make your life worth living.

After all, be careful what you wish for. You just might get it.

I find the greatest pleasure in those items I’ve saved toward buying and perhaps purchased at some sacrifice. Nothing foolish, mind you, but choosing what I really want at the cost of something else.

The day I buy my sofa, I will treasure it. No, I won’t keep it covered in plastic. But my futon, with its lumpy mattress, has served its purpose and then some, and I’ve wanted a new sofa for a very long time. Last year I came this close to getting one. The opportunity to move to a much nicer place came along, and that ate up all my savings.

A genie in a bottle is a nice thought, but that genie doesn’t have your best interests at heart.

My life doesn’t need a free ride to make it better.


Special thanks to my family, all of those who have helped me get back on my feet at a time when I couldn’t do it by myself. Your ongoing support means the world to me. I won the lottery when it came to family.

Bottle

Image Credits: (Magic Bottle) © Bigstock; (Genie) © Fotolia

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11 Comments on “I’ll Still Accept Gifts…

  1. I hear you and for the most part I agree completely. But…after 61 years of worrying about money (ok, less than 61 since I AM 61 and didn’t worry about money as a baby lol), I sure wouldn’t mind a “genie” to make life just a tad easier 😉 DakotasDen

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    • I understand, and I’m far from financially secure. A “small” lottery winning I could probably manage…but I don’t want or need to be overwhelmed and forced to spend my time managing my money.

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  2. If I won the lottery I would want to remain completely anonymous. Then I’d pay off my children’s’ college debt, as well as my own. Then I’d pay off any remaining outstanding debts (mortgage, credit cards, etc.) and take everyone out for ice cream with the leftovers! 😉

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    • That’s a good, manageable idea…it’s when people have more money than financial savvy to match that lottery winnings become a burden.

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