Recently I ready brief biography of music composer Dorothy Fields on a fellow bloggers site. One quote from her stood out to me:
When your ship doesn’t come in, go out and find it.
How often does our ship actually come in? Certainly there are times we are lucky enough to have good fortune fall our way. But more often than not, we need to create our own possibilities.
I’ve written before about being prepared for opportunity, and I think that’s part of it. Training and experience obviously help in the job hunt, and having an updated resume at the ready is wise. But there’s another part of it. Sometimes we need to take action and actually get out there and look for our own good luck.
We need to be brave.
Going back to the ship analogy, it isn’t always easy to set out in choppy seas to find a wayward vessel. But what are your options? Sit at the harbor and get rained on while your ship is sailing further away?
We need to make sacrifices.
Sometimes it’s small things we need to give up, and those can be the hardest to let go of. Consider your monthly expenses and pare those down. You may end up with greater discretionary income to cover the costs of seeking your ship.
We need to be patient.
It’s easy to give up and say “I tried, but it didn’t work.” Maybe you need to give up on reigning in one wayward ship and believe another is on the horizon. Don’t stop looking because your last opportunity is now out of reach.
Believe in yourself.
If you struggle with this, I have no quips or easy answers. However, I do know taking risks builds confidence, especially if you keep those risks in perspective.
I’ve had ships come and go, and some remain a steady part of my fleet. Now I’ve exhausted the metaphor.
But if your ship hasn’t come in, go out and find it.
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It wasn’t built to sit in the harbor. ❤
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Just needs to come in to the harbor to deliver the goods. 🙂
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